Book of Divorce

Book of Divorce (Bid'i Divorce)

الطَّلاَقِ

The Book of Dhihar

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Book of Divorce (Bid'i Divorce)

It is also impermissible to divorce the wife, after consummation of the marriage, during her menstrual period or during a time of purity in which he had intercourse with her. This is because Ibn ‘Umar (RAHUMA) narrated that he divorced his wife while she was on her period, and when ‘Umar (RA) mentioned that to the Messenger of Allah (SA), he said, “Order him to take her back and then keep her (as a wife) until she becomes pure, then she menstruates, and then she becomes pure. Afterwards, if he still wants to divorce her, let him do that before touching her.” 1338 , 1339

وَلاَ طَلاَقَ الْمَدْخُوْلِ بِهَا فِيْ حَيْضِهَا أَوْ طُهْرٍ أَصَابَهَا فِيْه، لِمَا رَوَى ابْنُ عُمَرَ أَنَّهُ طَلَّقَ امْرَأَةً لَهُ وَهِيَ حَائِضٌ، فَذَكَرَ ذٰلِكَ عُمَرُ لِرَسُوْلِ اللهِ فَتَغَيَّظَ عَلَيْهِ رَسُوْلُ اللهِ ثُمَّ قَالَ: "مُرْهُ فَلْيُرَاجِعْهَا ثُمَّ يَمْسِكُهَا حَتَّى تَطْهُرَ ثُمَّ تَحِيْضَ ثُمَّ تَطْهُرَ، فَإِنْ بَدَا لَهُ أَنْ يُطَلِّقَهَا، فَلْيُطَلِّقْهَا قَبْلَ أَنْ يَمَسَّهَا."

The supporters of the majority position had many rebuttals to this report; they were best put together by Imam Ibn Ḥajar in his commentary on the “Chapter of Those Who Permitted the Threefold Divorce” in Fatḥ al-Bâri. However, the strength of the chain and clarity of the meaning would still make this report a formidable evidence for the minority position
Finally, the hardship that results from forcing a finalized divorce without recourse upon a single pronouncement is obvious. The family is instantly dissolved without recourse, unless the wife marries another man and then her marriage with him ends. The contemporary Ḥanbali scholar Shaykh Ibn Baz said about the minority position, “It is also my view, because that is consistent with all of the texts, and it is also more merciful and kind to the Muslims.”

1338. (Ag – from ‘Abdullâh ibn ‘Umar)

1339. Divorce during the Menstrual Period
This discussion pertains to the bid‘ah divorce, which means that it occurs during the menstrual period or in a period of ritual purity in which the couple had intercourse, of a woman with whom marriage was consummated. It does not pertain to the divorce of the contracted woman before consummation, or to a pregnant, premenarcheal or post-menopausal woman, whose divorce is valid at all times. Allah said:

{O Prophet, when you [Muslims] divorce women, divorce them for [the commencement of] their waiting period…} (aṭ-Ṭalâq 65: 1)

يَا أَيُّهَا النَّبِيُّ إِذَا طَلَّقْتُمُ النِّسَاء فَطَلِّقُوهُنَّ لِعِدَّتِهِنَّ

The Prophet (SA) explained the meaning of this – that a woman should be divorced only when she is in a state of ritual purity (free from ḥayḍ [menstruation] and nifâs [postpartum bleeding]), when her husband has not had intercourse with her since the end of her last menses. In this case, she starts counting her waiting period from the first menstruation after the divorce. Otherwise, if she is divorced while menstruating, she has to drop that menstruation from the total count of three menstrual periods. This bid‘ah divorce is not permissible, by consensus. Concerning its validity and whether it will count as three divorces, there are three different positions:
(A) + (+H, +M, +S): It is valid (and this is the position of the vast majority). Ibn Ḥazm: It is invalid unless it is the third divorce or a threefold divorce. It is invalid; this is the position of a few Mâlikis and Ḥanbalis, including Ibn ‘Aqeel, Ibn Taymiyah, and Ibn al-Qayyim. This is also the position of ash-Shawkâni, aṣ-Ṣan‘âni, Ṣiddeeq Ḥasan Khan, Aḥmad Shâkir, and Ibn Baz. This is the position of the Shiites and Kharijites as well.
A detailed discussion of this matter is beyond the scope of this book, but the root cause of the disagreement can be briefly attributed to two issues:
1- The varying reports concerning the story of Ibn ‘Umar when he divorced his wife during her period and was ordered by the Prophet (SA) to take her back. In some of the reports, the following statements are mentioned: "فَرَدَّها عَلَيّ ولَمْ يَرَهَا شَيْئاً" (“So he returned her back to me and did not consider it anything [valid/good]”) and he said, “ لَيْسَ ذَلِكَ بِشَيْء" (“That is nothing [valid/good]”). The other narrations, however, contained the following statements: "حُسِبَت عَلَيهِ" (“It was counted against him [Ibn ‘Umar]”) and " جَعَلَها واحِدَةً (“He counted it as one)” and “اعْتَدَّ بِهَا” (“He counted it”).

2- The scholars who claimed that the divorce is invalid argued that it is not permissible, citing the following principle:

The prohibition implies invalidity.

النَّهْيُ يَقْتَضِي الفَسَادَ

They cited the famous statement of the Prophet (SA):

“Whoever innovates something that is not in accordance with the principles of our religion will have it rejected.” (Ag – from ‘Â’ishah)

مَنْ أَحْدَثَ فِي أَمْرِنَا هَذَا مَا لَيْسَ فِيهِ فَهُوَ رَدٌّ

The position of the majority seems stronger because they cite reports that are more numerous and clearer. Even if we disregard this aspect of Ibn ‘Umar’s story because of the inconsistencies, the divorce should still count since it is done by someone who is legally authorized to issue it. The majority maintains that the

The Sunnah in divorce is to divorce the wife once during a state of purity during which he had no intercourse with her, then to leave her until her ‘iddah is over. 1340

وَالسُّنَّةُ فِيْ الطَّلاَقِ أَنْ يُطَلِّقَهَا فِيْ طُهْرٍ لَمْ يُصِبْهَا فِيْهِ وَاحِدَةً، ثُمَّ يَدَعَهَا حَتَّى تَنْقَضِيَ عِدَّتُهَا.

If he says to her, “You are divorced according to the Sunnah,” while she is in a period of purity during which he did not have intercourse with her, she becomes immediately divorced. If he had intercourse with her during that period, or if she is menstruating, then the divorce takes place only once her menstruation ends.

فَمَتَى قَالَ لَهَا: أَنْتِ طَالِقٌ لِلسُّنَّةِ، وَهِيَ فِيْ طُهْرٍ لَمْ يُصِبْهَا فِيْهِ، طَلُقَتْ، وَإِنْ كَانَتْ فِيْ طُهْرٍ أَصَابَهَا فِيْه أَوْ حَيْضٍ، لَمْ تَطْلُقْ حَتَّى تَطْهُرَ مِنَ اْلحَيْضَةِ.

If he says to her, “You are divorced according to the bid‘ah (innovated) way,” and she is menstruating or in a state of purity during which he had intercourse with her, then she becomes immediately divorced. If she is not, then she does not become divorced until he has sex with her or she menstruates.

وَإِنْ قَالَ لَهَا: أَنْتِ طَالِقٌ لِلْبِدْعَةِ، وَهِيَ حَائِضٌ أَوْ فِيْ طُهْرٍ أَصَابَهَا فِيْهِ، طَلُقَتْ، وَإِنْ لَمْ يَكُنْ كَذٰلِكَ، لَمْ تَطْلُقْ حَتَّى يُصِيْبَهَا أَوْ تَحِيْضَ.

As for the wife with whom marriage was not consummated, the pregnant wife whose pregnancy becomes obvious, the postmenopausal wife, and the premenarcheal wife, whenever he says to her, “You are divorced according to the

فَأَمَّا غَيْرُ الْمَدْخُوْلِ بِهَا، وَاْلحَامِلُ الَّتِيْ تَبَيَّنَ حَمْلُهَا، وَاْلآيِسَةُ وَالَّتِيْ لَمْ تَحِضْ، فَلاَ سُنَّةَ لِطَلاقِها وَلاَ بِدْعَةَ، فَمَتَى قَالَ لَهَا أنت طالِقٌ للسُّنَّةِ أو للبِدعَةِ طَلُقَتْ في الحال.

prohibition of divorce during this time is not related to the essence of divorce or its pillars, conditions of validity, or inseparable attributes. The prohibition is, at least in part, to avoid prolonging the waiting period for the woman, which is extraneous to the subject matter of divorce. In such cases, the prohibition does not imply invalidity. Allah knows best.

1340. Without initiating more divorces.

Sunnah or the bid‘ah way,” she becomes immediately divorced. 1341

فَمَنِ اسْتَوْفىٰ عَدَدَ طَلاَقِهِ، لَمْ تَحِلَّ لَهُ حَتَّى تَنْكِحَ زَوْجًا غَيْرَهُ، نِكَاحًا صَحِيْحًا، وَيَطَأَهَا، لِقَوْلِ رَسُوْلِ اللهِ لاِمْرَأَةِ

1341. One of the problems with the bid‘ah ṭalâq is that it prolongs the waiting period for the woman. In the cases mentioned here, the waiting period is either fixed (three lunar months) or ends upon childbirth, or there is no waiting period to begin with (such as the one with whom marriage was not consummated).

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